I never really understood fine china. So many women I know have beautiful collections of fine china. Each set of china usually dating back to a bridal shower long, long ago. If you ask most women about their set of china, I can guarantee you there’s a story behind it, one that started with love, marriage and lots of history.
From my own experience, I found that most women I have talked to still love their china; still look at that china with the same sense of excitement that traces back to the start of a wonderful love story. But as I have talked to these gushing ladies, I find that most of these women don’t use this china that they love and adore. “Why?!” I would ask. “Why not use china that you love, that you hand picked with your future groom, that you received from those guests so near and dear to you so many years back?”
Everyone’s answer is a little different and through this informal research, I have come to my own little conclusion about fine china.
If I received super expensive fine china like these lovely ladies, I would say the same thing… it’s so expensive, I only want to use it for “special” occasions. I can’t put it in the dish washer, so it’s just easier to use my regular dishes. I’m nervous something may break and then I can’t use the set anymore.
I get it. These excuses make sense…. and that’s why I told myself that fine china is not for me. I would hate for my friends and family to spend allll of this money on a set of china that I would never use.
That’s until I talked to one of my creative aunts. She is one of the few ladies that puts her beautiful china to use … a lot! She gave me the idea to search at garage sales, estate sales, and thrifts stores to find china. Build a collection of china that is different, inexpensive, and that you’re willing to use, abuse, break, and replace.
And that’s what I did and it was far easier than I thought!