How to Tie the Perfect Bow for Gifts

Wrapping gifts. It’s just a part of the holiday season, isn’t it? We’re definitely guilty of just plopping our gifts into the appropriately themed gift bag, and calling it a day. Because sometimes wrapping your present and creating a bow is just so darn hard and time-consuming.

How to Tie the Perfect Bow

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But this year we decided that it was finally time to step up our gift wrap game, and learn how to wrap beautiful presents that could act as holiday decor under our own trees. Like the gifts featured under Maggie’s gold & glam tree...
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…gorgeously wrapped with poufy bows galore! But we can’t take credit for these perfectly crafted packages. Nope. Instead, we turned to the best bow maker we know to help us make these masterpieces for the photo shoot.

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Casey’s mom, Jan (sometimes referred to as Janimal). She is the MASTER BOW MAKER, and you’re in luck because she agreed to share her bow making secrets with all of you!

So take it away Janimal, here’s how to tie the perfect bow for gifts.

Jan: I think I became interested in making bows by watching my good friend, Denise, make bows for her flower shop.  She would grab a bunch of ribbon and before you knew it, she would have the most gorgeous bows ready to decorate a flower arrangement or a gift.  She didn’t know it at the time, but I watched her closely and practiced whenever I had a chance.  Over time, my bows became better and better but I still believe Denise deserves the master bow maker title.  So, thanks Denise!!  You were a great teacher!

This will take your Christmas Gifts up a notch! Learn How to Tie the Perfect Bow | DIY PlaybookThe reason I love making my own bows is because it dresses up my gifts and makes them look gorgeous and inviting.  Even if I have an unoriginal, boring gift inside the box, once it’s dressed up with beautiful wrap and ribbon the recipient of my gift is usually pretty excited to open it up!  And, believe it or not, wrapping gifts this way is much less expensive than buying pre-made bows.

Cutting Down On Costs

Making your own gorgeous bows can save you money! Buy buying whole spools of ribbon you cut down on costs.

I would suggest buying big spools of ribbon from Costco.  They carry ribbon all year long, in various widths and colors.  Each spool holds 50 yards, so for $6.99 you get 150 feet of heavyweight, beautiful ribbon.

Rookie Tip: The ribbon with wire along the edges is much easier to work with, especially for a beginner.  It holds its shape better and it is easier to “fluff”.  I would suggest starting your bow making experience using this type of ribbon if you can find it.

Here are the supplies you need to get started:


Neutral wrapping paper will let your new bows shine.

Getting Started

Once your package is wrapped (we won’t go into the actual wrapping…instead today is all about bows!), you will want to wrap the ribbon around the package and tie it in a knot. In order to tie the perfect bow, first you wrap the ribbon around the gift.  I just unroll some of the ribbon from the spool and wrap it around the gift to get an idea of how much I will need before I cut it.  Make sure to pull the ribbon from back to front and front to back.  (You will be wrapping the ribbon around the package both horizontally and vertically.)

To get an idea of how much ribbon a normal sized shirt box requires for this step, I measured it and it was about 7 feet long.  Usually, I don’t measure the ribbon.  Instead, I just eyeball it and it works, but do whatever feels right to you.

Once you have the right amount of ribbon, you can cut the ribbon from the spool.

So, go ahead and cut the ribbon and push the spool aside.

Tying the First Knot

 Now, you will flip the package over, top-down, and slide the long strand of ribbon under it.  Pull on the ends to make sure that they are equal in length. Now, bring the ribbon ends toward one another and criss-cross it.  Flip the package back over so that the top is up and bring the ribbon together and simply tie it in a knot, leaving ends that are relatively long.  When you tie the perfect bow on a gift, you must tie a solid knot as the base of the bow. The “base” of the package is done and now you are ready for the bow.

Learning How to Tie the Perfect Bow is all about the loops! Start making loops with your ribbon on one side.

Starting the Large Bow On Top

Unwind a bunch of the ribbon from the spool and start by making “loops” on each side and pinching the ribbon together in the middle.  Pinch it tight and keep adding same sized loops to each side.  I like to have four loops on each side to make a nice, big, poufy bow.

One you make your nice big ribbon loops on each side of your bow, cut the ribbon from the spool. Once you have yours to your liking, go ahead and cut the ribbon off the spool.

Place your bow on the base of the package, right in the middle.

Now you can set this down in the middle of your package, take the long ends of the “base” and tie them into a knot in the middle of the package. Then snip the ends of your base ribbon (I like to cut on an angle so they don’t unravel, plus it looks nice!) so they’re not too long.

What Size is Right?

 (Once again, I measured the amount of ribbon I used for a medium sized shirt box bow and it was about 7 feet.  So, the total amount of ribbon I used was 7 feet for the base and 7 feet for the bow — 14 feet total.)  The Costco ribbon is $6.99 for 150 feet.  That means I can wrap about 11 shirt sized boxes with one spool of ribbon, for a total of $.65 per package!  What??  Now, that’s a price that makes me smile!

Take the long ends of your ribbon and tie them around your bow, making a knot.

Rookie tip:  It’s tough to keep the ribbon pinched in the middle and tie a knot around it all at the same time and all by yourself.  After all, you only have two hands!  So, if you are a novice you might want to ask a helper to tie the knot around the ribbon while you keep the middle pinched nice and tight.  I promise, that with some practice you will soon be able to do it all by yourself, so don’t be discouraged if you need a little help in the beginning!

How to tie the perfect bow - it's all about practice!

Fluffing the Bow

Now it’s time to fluff!!  This is the fun part, if you ask me, and the more you “fluff”, the prettier the bow!  You will want to grab each individual loop and pull it out away from the middle.  Start at the bottom and pull the bottom loops to each side.  Next, take the loop on top of the bottom one and pull it to the other side.  Keep going until all of the loops are pulled away from one another and the bow looks fluffy, poufy and gorgeous.  You can keep fluffing and tweaking until you are happy with your creation.

Doesn't this DIY bow look amazing? Now that we've taught you how to make the perfect bow you can wrap away!

Gorgeous Bows

At this point, you may want to add some embellishment, like the little gold balls that adorn some of Maggie’s packages.  You can wrap the long wire ends of the little balls around the base of your bows and tuck them under so they don’t show.  Get creative here! There are so many pretty little “extras” you can find that will personalize your gift and make it extra special.Adding some extra decorative elements to your gorgeous bow makes the gifts all the more exciting.

So, there you go!  I hope my directions are clear but if not, I would suggest you just grab a package, a roll of ribbon and start experimenting.  When I first tried this, my bows were a hot mess but eventually they started looking pretty darn amazing!  All it takes is practice, practice, practice!!!  By Christmas, the gifts under your tree will be the envy of the family!!  And don’t be surprised if they look so inviting that some of your recipients try to get a “sneak peek” of what’s inside!You can have this wonderful display too when you learn How to Tie the Perfect Bow | DIY Playbook

Thanks, Jan!

A big thanks to Jan for taking the time to share her bow making tips on the blog today! We certainly have a lot of practice ahead for us, but we can’t wait to improve our bow making skills. We suppose it’s time to say bye to those gift bags for good…How to Tie the Perfect Bow | DIY Playbook



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